Lady Anja wanted this guy to learn that she was not one to mess with. She was not interested in him and it was high time he realized that she was not going to let him mess with her. So the mistress dangled her heels to show him that she was not interested in him or any of the things he said to her or he did. She then told him that if he did not stop being a bother to her, he would find himself in hot soup.